Sunny Verma: 2021

A few years ago, I shared The arranged love story of mine with a promise that my love story will start soon. Few may argue that you took several years to find "meri wali" but I'm more than happy that I took the time I wanted and found the best person I could have.

Ladies & gentleman - let me introduce the love of my life - Vanchha

The real story

Once upon a time, there was a boy named Sunny who like every other boy used to get scared of the word - marriage. This was the trigger point of anxiety for numerous reason (no space for sad stories). Well, after a well thought discussion with a close friend, he finally got mentally prepared for finding the missing part of his life.

After scanning all possible scenarios, I finally created an account on JS (yes the typical way yet different). And within a week I just sent one request and it got accepted. I was never prepared for a yes. Since, my account was unpaid one, it showed just a unique id. I confirmed the name by a friend and the real effort started. Well, I was so confident that I uninstalled the app right away.

You only need to find yourself, everything else can be googled.

It all started with googling the unique name and skimming the LinkedIn and instagram (private account). I also looked for the meaning of the name Vanchha which means desire. The instagram follow request was accepted since she saw my profile visits on different platform. All I needed was an icebreaker to know her. At first conversation I mentioned about her name, how I found her by googling, my anxiety about marriage and the rudest part how I'm bluffing my mind from marriage to an office-like project (the most important project of my life).

I never realised that being so truthful is going to be so embarrassing. She pointed each and every effort by me (never ever try my footsteps unless you're a great communicator like me) and laughed a lot. Out of all embarrassment, my achievement was that we got too involved in the conversation over time and we never run out of topic till date.

To me, it was a mental match. She respected my ask to not to talk about marriage. We were so easy with each other in all topics and felt like a childhood friends.

We met after few conversations and virtual movie dates. We went out on numerous unforgettable dates with her several hours spent on deciding a dress as prerequisite. We watched movie together and I got to know how emotional she can get. She never said no for an early morning chai. We both being a foodie explored several restaurants and dhabas. She still complains about me not preparing enough dishes for her. We met each other's friends, did some never-to-forget adventures (can't be disclosed publicly considering all kinds of target audience reading this, keep imagining folks). Well, one of the adventure also involves proposing her to be my girlfriend. That was a very beautiful and precious moment when we both were high on feelings. And she said - YES!

Over a period of time, we were very sure about each other and that was one of the best decision when we both agreed to move one step ahead in relationship. We involved both out families and was Rokafied.