Though I'm a 9 pointer (oh yeah, show off of no use), I consider myself to be the weakest in the subject of LOVE. To those of you know me closely would have agreed to the above statement one time or the other. But, when I asked myself - Really? I had no straight answer to my question.
One of my mentor taught me - Whenever you're solving complex problem, go to the basics. I applied twice in this case. I first googled the literal meaning of love which answered me: Love is a strong feeling of affection. I was very convinced by the statement and started connecting with my surrounding.
To my surprise, in most of the cases love was all about saying I LOVE YOU and giving gifts on every occasion, killing flowers to show your love alive. Reminding by saying - Baby, I love you, I care for you and so on. While in most cases, I found saying above statements are the substitute of not loving or caring literally (not always though). Disclamer - Don't ever think I don't love you or care for you if I say I Love You! :)
Few cases increasing the complexity of the problem statement, I went back to basics again for the second time and thought for a while with my eyes closed (little dramatic, I know). I figured out that to me, the strongest feeling of affection could be seen a mother taking care of her baby with no conditions of saying I love you, gifting, etc. She expresses her affection with the best possible way. I wish all relationships can be made as pure as that. You need not always say, instead, express in the best way you can. These days, love is confined mostly between gf-bf but I feel love is equally important to be expressed for all your friends, family, crushes (not really sure about this though), etc ;) One of the ad defines closely to what I'm trying to say, spend a minute for Jo zimmedari nibhate hai, zataate nahi :)
This is purely my personal thoughts. It may not match with yours and I'm not enforcing any thoughts on you. I would just say that even though I don't say I Love You, make it a point - I really do and will continue to do so by my best way I can.
You just take care of me, I will take care of everything else.
One of my mentor taught me - Whenever you're solving complex problem, go to the basics. I applied twice in this case. I first googled the literal meaning of love which answered me: Love is a strong feeling of affection. I was very convinced by the statement and started connecting with my surrounding.
To my surprise, in most of the cases love was all about saying I LOVE YOU and giving gifts on every occasion, killing flowers to show your love alive. Reminding by saying - Baby, I love you, I care for you and so on. While in most cases, I found saying above statements are the substitute of not loving or caring literally (not always though). Disclamer - Don't ever think I don't love you or care for you if I say I Love You! :)
Few cases increasing the complexity of the problem statement, I went back to basics again for the second time and thought for a while with my eyes closed (little dramatic, I know). I figured out that to me, the strongest feeling of affection could be seen a mother taking care of her baby with no conditions of saying I love you, gifting, etc. She expresses her affection with the best possible way. I wish all relationships can be made as pure as that. You need not always say, instead, express in the best way you can. These days, love is confined mostly between gf-bf but I feel love is equally important to be expressed for all your friends, family, crushes (not really sure about this though), etc ;) One of the ad defines closely to what I'm trying to say, spend a minute for Jo zimmedari nibhate hai, zataate nahi :)
This is purely my personal thoughts. It may not match with yours and I'm not enforcing any thoughts on you. I would just say that even though I don't say I Love You, make it a point - I really do and will continue to do so by my best way I can.
You just take care of me, I will take care of everything else.
