Kya yaar, ek ladki bhi nahi pata paye - a best friend quoted me with too much disappointment. The fact in the previous statement gave me momentary pain but had the harsh reality which made me introspect. Though I’ve my version of WHY any point of time, I thought of viewing it in a different angle. After days of analysis, sadly I ended up with The arranged love story of mine - yet to start, but definitely on my way. I’ve mentioned my weakness in the subject of “The Love" several times. Infact I would say, I’ve never opted for this subject. But given my previous academic records, I would definitely have fun in the arranged love story of mine. This time, it would not be theoretical but 99% practical- I can bet on that!
I believe mid-twenties is being tough for almost everyone. No matter on what topic you’re discussing with your friends, colleagues, family members, you always end up with “Marriage”. Obviously, there are other topics as well but Marriage dominates all of them and almost everyone gets activated and has resonance of thoughts.
The most common statements being - “Yaar, mere Ghar wale dhund rahe hai”, “Koi dhang ka ladka/ladki nahi mil raha/rahi”, “Mujhe nahi karna shaadi” and so on. This has been incremental starting from school subject selection to choosing college and then the job and next Marriage. I am sure - Why our society is designed in such a way is the most common question we all have. More than pressure in real life, we 25ish people are overburdened with the posts of people getting married, going for honeymoon, having kid(s), etc. (No particular sequence of events intended by writer).
Going with the flow, since I couldn’t hit my love story yet, I would definitely create my love story soon given the pre-requisites of getting it arranged. Well, it sounds like now I am open for proposals. Hell yes, I am. In Julius Caesar by William Shakespeare Act 3 Scene I, the death of Caesar is justified by quoting - Why, he that cuts off twenty years of life, Cuts off so many years of fearing death. Not the best analogy to give right now but still holds good that by marrying soon, years can be cut wondering who that person would be. Naa jaane mere bina bechari kaha bhatak rahi hogi. Hoping for the best so that I can write The arranged love story of mine soon.