Sunny with Honey

College days are the best days of one's life. We do wonders and stupidity in college. So here is an example of such stupidity. A small poem written by me in initial days of my college life.

My name is Sunny,

I had no money,

I was with my honey,

On a date which was funny.



We had a heavy lunch,

Lunch followed by munch.

The time came to pay the bill,

But my heart became still.

My day was very bad,

Because my Honey became sad.

The Loss

If I ask you - " Have you ever lost anything" ? You will say YES for sure. Loss can be in terms of money, relationship, loved one's. Any loss impacts an individual very badly. It sometimes take a moment or days or months or years to neutralise the effect of loss but the little amount of sadness remains forever somewhere in the corner of the heart.

I lost my mother, I lost a beautiful friendship, so the pain of losing is well known by me. Sometimes, you just feel like crying and make yourself relaxed. You lose focus on your aims. Nothing seems good. Whole world seems useless. You feel like the whole world is with me but with whom I wanted to be is not with me. The feeling of emptiness is weird.

There comes a time when you feel like- "Lets end up thinking about losses and start up with a new page". Here comes the toughest part. The more you try to forget something, the more you will remember it. Remembering something is much easier job than forgetting what you had once. You can try techniques like weep out your tears, share with friends or family, write it and flush it, etc. But until and unless, you self-evaluate and make up your mind, you will never be able to recover from the loss.

Simple theory is- "Gain so much that you forget what you have lost". And the joy of gain is what will make the difference in life. CELEBRATE IT..!!

Exchanging dreams and reality

Exchanging dreams and reality.
Sometimes, we see a nice dream and say to ourselves - 'I wish this was a reality' and sometimes we face such horrible situations that we think - 'I wish this was a dream'. But mostly we are not able to convert our  dreams into reality and vice versa. We wish so many things in life that we forget to enjoy what we have and continue wishing what we don't have. Ofcourse, turning dreams into reality is possible but not by wishes but by hard work and determination to achieve the dream. Also, if we are going through bad times, instead of wishing for it to be horrible dream, we can fix the problem or deal with our best efforts.

Instead of saying 'Kash aisa hota, kash waisa hota' , implement it and prove yourself that your action speaks more than your words. Try your level best to accomplish all good but feasible dreams. Whatever bad happened can't be changed but can be modified for better or will help to connect the dots in future.  Make the best use of life. Be happy and keep smiling and if you are capable of being happy in any situation, you are living a wonderful life :)